Please read the following blog post…
http://www.danoah.com/2011/11/im-christian-unless-youre-gay.html
I came across this fabulous post thru a friend. Wow. I just don’t even know where to begin. This writer has said everything that is in my heart. I just don’t have such a graceful way of trying to present my thoughts without coming across as completely hypocritical to whatever it is I’m trying to say. This really shouldn’t be such a revolutionary idea; love everyone, no matter what, period. But it is certainly something I personally struggle with. Although the writer spoke a lot about the ‘typical’ social outcasts such as gays, addicts, and homeless people, my struggle is usually with those judging the former, the ones practicing a faith-as-a-weapon type of theology. That and the privileged, which in a global worldview, is pretty much myself and everyone I know. Is this just a version of self-loathing? Perhaps. But it’s still one in the same. Withholding love from someone for any reason is simply not justified! I think we sometimes confuse love with approval. The fear is that we’d somehow be sending the message that we agree with whatever choices someone is making. But the message we’re really sending is that they don’t have any inherent dignity or worth as a human being, basically, we are saying they are worthless. Another obstacle is the fear of association, pretty self-explanatory. But again, this comes down to a perceived lack of worth, why else would we fear being associated with such a person? I am trying to resist whipping out any bible verses. This is a universal human message. It is not limited or confined in any way to any faith or system of beliefs. My hope is to try and show a little more love to those I perceive as unloveable. Who knows… maybe it’ll catch on!